Friday, August 5, 2011

How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul

In your quest for love, don't lose yourself along the way. While navigating through the dating scene, every woman begins to wonder: How do I know when a guy really loves me? Am I being too picky? Do I even deserve love? Is my relationship worth keeping? Is love worth the risk? Are any decent guys left? Single women often feel left alone to find answers to their deep questions about love and intimacy. Some hang out and hook up, hoping for love. Others are afraid even to hope. At some point, every woman needs reassurance that she and her standards are not the problem. In the book, By Crystalina and Jason Evert, How to Find Your Soulmate Without Losing Your Soul, you'll discover twenty-one strategies to help you raise the bar, instead of sitting at it, waiting around for Mr. Wonderful.

                                                     Meet The Authors:





SOME QUOTES THAT A LIKE FROM THE BOOK
"Singleness can be a time to discover yourself, your dreams, your goals. You can't really find your soul-mate, unless you really find yourself."
"at times you allow your insecurities to overpower you, and your thoughts run wild, but with Jesus love you can control any vice, wickedness, or  evil weapon that comes against you. It's time to rise up, unafraid of who you are, embrace it. Don't lower your yourself or hide, b/c the power of Jesus love and grace will always be there to catch you and show you the way. you are a beloved daughter of Jesus, He who is God."


Please watch their talk on youtube. It also mentions how women and men are left with a lot of hurts and brokenness from their past.  And usually this brokenness surfaces in marriage, so ask God to show you what junk and lies you are holding in your heart. This is not easy. IT hurts to face the junk and lies you've been carrying, but if we embrace them WITH Christ He will clean us up. He will mold us into the Women and Men He created us to be.

Psalm 51:10-12 




(The talk starts at the 8 minute mark on the video, so move the bar down to that time to watch = ))